‘It’s quite confusing’
At the end of August, Olcay Gulsen and Ruud de Wild announced that they would not continue together. And after a relationship in which you shared joys and sorrows for four years, Olcay finds that it is quite difficult to suddenly take your own path.
Fracture
Two months ago, a joint message from Olcay and Ruud appeared on Instagram in which they indicated that they had separated. “In recent months we are no longer a couple as you may know us,” they wrote at the time. “We have noticed that we each want to figure things out in life for ourselves.” However, the two emphasized that there was absolutely no drama whatsoever. “There is no one else, no fuss and no arguing. After a period of overstimulation, we need time for ourselves.”
Alienated
Although their break is still fairly fresh, Olcay says in a candid video on TikTok that she and Ruud quickly became estranged. “I also thought: oh wow, you have a whole life besides me. Which is healthy.” The new phase they are now in is quite a reality check for Olcay. “You share joys and sorrows with each other, but if you break up you quickly start living your own life again.”
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Still, Olcay can’t resist checking in every now and then to see what her ex is up to. “So I asked Ruud if he had a date. Then he said to me: ‘Yes, I don’t want to answer that’.” Although she finds it strange to suddenly no longer tell each other everything, she also understands that Ruud now keeps some things to himself. “But no, he’s right. Of course that doesn’t concern me. It is also a new phase that we are entering. It all feels so far away or something.”
Good decision
Fortunately, Olcay still sees the break as a good decision. “Because we don’t fit together and we are happier without each other. But we do love each other very much. Do you still understand? No, it’s quite confusing.”
Source: RTL Boulevard | Image: NL Image, TikTok @olcay
