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They learned from their mistakes! Last year, Jennifer Lopez (54) and Ben Affleck (51) tied the knot twice – since then they have been on cloud nine. The singer and the actor were a couple over 20 years ago and a wedding was already being planned. But this was canceled without further ado and the two went their separate ways again. J.Lo and. seem all the happier Ben to be in their relationship now – and there’s a reason for that!
In an interview with Variety, the 54-year-old admits that she and Ben still suffer from media attention – but the couple can deal with it much better today. “But we’re older now. We’re wiser. We also know what’s important, what’s really important in life and it’s not so much about what other people think,” J.Lo emphasizes. The most important thing today for the “On The Floor” interpreter and her lover is to remain true to themselves.
How lucky the “Batman“-actor makes his wife, she already revealed in an interview with Extra. “We are real partners, not only at work, but also in life, as parents, as lovers, as a couple. […] “He doesn’t have any goals other than to see me shine as best as I can, and I want that for him too, so I definitely always want to hear his opinion,” J.Lo said.
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